Searching for so many years learned me that the more I searched,

the more I knew, and the more I knew, the less I knew.

Bodywork, energetical transmissions, tantra, empowerment, consciousness development,...

Every teacher convinced of his own truth.

Inspired by Michael Barnett, Mooiji, Bentinho Massaro, Shantam Nityama, Anurag Gupta, Sasha Cobra and Marc Gafny, some of them I * gratefully * met in a personal, friendly way and they are still part of my life.

They were all right from their own experience and perception.


But as long as I could not feel , breathe, or embody their teachings, they stayed part of my mind.

The head understands a lot, but the real integration takes place in the daily play field of 'ordinary' existence.

Each event, retreat or session offers an extra safe space to explore in depth, but what happens when you come home with your partner, with your family?


How do you stay in love?

In every moment, whatever life brings you? In case of pain or disappointment?


How do you really step into Creator's role and go beyond those damn fears that always appear?


I decided to no longer have my life determined by my mind, but to accept my responsibility as Creator.

A daily exercise, that continually challenges me, makes me softer, opens me up more, allowing me to experience more compassion and love for others. But especially for myself.


What remains is a life that becomes step by step more playful, creative, grateful.

And shows me the endless possibilities that it has to offer.

For more depth around the man-woman theme,

visit my website:  Being Love and Beauty

On my personal website you find the private sessions and online dynamics I offer on donation base: www.evimaes.com


Through the years, I have discovered that I am always carried by Life itself.

It is not always easy to feel that, especially around your own blind spots. That is why it can be very helpful to interact with someone that can feel that support when you do not feel it yourself.

In life, you often get back what you send out.

Your perspective of your situation determines how you feel. Feeling stuck because of a certain decision, is always the result of your perspective and not of your decision.

There is always a possibility for another choice.

There is always hope.

You don’t have to stay small.

You are the one that is responsible for that, but we easily forget.


For me, relationship is the interaction between carrying each other (safety) and challenge each other to break out of old patterns so fresh energy and inspiration can flow again.  

I am a free spirit, adventurer, transformational coach, 
wanderer, friend and much more.

I am there for you if you:

want to discover a deeper level of Consciousness; 
want to create a life of fulfillment;
want to live from your essence, authenticity and calling;
show leadership from the heart;
want to come home with yourself;
want to have a positive impact on your surroundings.

Chances of success will increase when

you have the courage to look within for the strength behind your shadow;
you have the willingness to change your perspectives;
your body and your focus are relaxed.

I guide the new leaders: www.matthiasarentsen.com


When we met, we saw a lot of seemingly differences between us.


Evi had a lot of relationships which enriched her all in a specific way on her (spiritual) path.

For her, sexuality was open and conscious, tantric inspired.

She was (and still is ) a mother of two kids, who are spending more time with their father after co-parenting them for five years, while she was guiding groups over Europe.


Matthias walked his life alone for 39 years, transcending limitations through study, awareness and presence.

He never was in any romantic relationship, neither discovered any form of physical intimacy or sexuality.

An unwritten blank page.“I will fix him, just as all my other clients,” Evi thought, were it not that this man could not be tricked or manipulated in any way.


The journey that followed was one of patience, raw and honest communication and vulnerability as a heart opener.

A transformational process for Evi with humility, deep faith, loosing attachments as anchor. Discovering deep friendship and trust as baseline for intimacy.

Matthias was invited to step into his leadership, own his masculine power, set his boundaries, and pass through shame and guilt deeply rooted in his physical body.


Beyond the limitations, where all concepts disappear, we meet each other in love and unity.

Beyond the misbeliefs, we see how complementary we truly are.


Now we share our embodied wisdom with those who want to expand their relationship and grow into a fulfilling being together, while enjoying our continuous journey of growth.



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